Sometimes, I feel somewhat down and jealous. I think of O.J. Simpson (as a formerly admirable and a supposedly great character when compared to a previous black person, and now as a guy "who could have escaped his crimes") pessimistically, but then I come to terms with it quickly and find a way to get back to myself in a hurry to be able to function and stay wherever I am. In the light of that, both professionally and personally, I write this article. Who does not experience even among the most downright negative bumps and slams on the road that they have to get over from the ground up sometimes. It's part of living and being, of course. However, those terrible pessimistic lemons have to be made into good optimistic lemonade, even Gemstagram by people who have everything against them , and not much going their way in a positive way (yet). It is essential to be truthful with ourselves in the beginning That's what I refer to as "the basic bones and the dirt" in my name. However hard it is to admit our mistakes in our negativity, desperation and skepticism. They must be acknowledged for us to actually work on the problem and build inner confidence and confidence in our own self. For us to be present fully to us, we have to be present and Trending News realistic about our weaknesses andvirtues fully. Without such admissions, we're searching in the dark for our own light. If you switch on the light in your room, what do you see constantly? Do not hesitate, examine your surroundings and take a good or great view of yourself. If you can and do not be afraid, go insane or get odd, these are the first signs of genuine honest, unremitting strength and optimism. Falsely believing that you will "make it" doesn't count either. Sometimes, it is being a completely healthy and genuine person with the heart of a person that makes them a superhero if you know what I'm talking about. Everybody loves the feeling of winning, but so many do not like the idea of having to pay for it this way. It's a process and it's a wonderful process that builds character and, at times, even hurts. However, for those who genuinely adhere to it, it's worth it in every way which is what really matters. Ah, the pleasures and the aches of optimism, when it's actually. Phony optimism means closing your eyes, moving forward with the hope that everything does not go topsy-turvy, get out of hand, go wrong or go down wrong, and if you win you are able to claim the credit, but if it happens wrong, you give up and shift blame as Sean McVay the Los Angeles Rams football coach seems to do on local news channels on the news in Los Angeles, California when they lose big games and take all credit when they win those same major games. I'm saying to embrace it all, failure and success and you'll get there in the end, no matter how difficult it might be at times, as it is genuine growth. It is a fact if you are on a real path of growth that is not faking, flinching or fear. All else skips the problem and missing the point. They say the cost of being a sinner or not meeting the standards is death. However, the cost of making it is real life and existence really lived in full and without fear and that's all. All of it is your choice, in the end. The name I use is Joshua Clayton, I am an independent writer who lives within Inglewood, California. I have also written under several pen-names and aliases. However, Joshua Clayton is my real name and I write as that for the most part. I am a philosopher and objective and honest in my actions. I also work at an elderly center in Gardena, California as my day job, and I do other things, but primarily I write.